Just like decluttering your home, friendships sometimes need reassessment. Tough love conversations can bring clarity and growth, helping you nurture meaningful connections

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Just like decluttering your home, friendships sometimes need reassessment. Tough love conversations can bring clarity and growth, helping you nurture meaningful connections
Exploring the delicate balance between healing from trauma and maintaining a casual relationship, Dear Lala offers practical advice for those struggling to protect their emotional well-being in undefined romantic connections.
Dear Lala, My best friend’s love life is a constant rollercoaster, and I’m always along for the ride. Her dating drama has become the center of our friendship, and I’m exhausted. How can I support her without losing myself in her boy-crazy world? — Dizzy from the Boycoaster
After a traumatic breakup that left me almost homeless, I leaned on a good friend for support. Now, she’s pursuing a friendship with my ex. Feeling hurt and betrayed, I wonder if ‘girl code’ is just a myth.
“I want to save our marriage and her to be happy, but I am not sure I can handle an open relationship”.
Dear Lala, I was just catching up with an old friend recently (who happens to be a boy) that I haven't seen in many years because we live on different sides of the world and just life stuff got in the way really. We had a blast catching up and spent a lovely day...
DEAR LALA I am having an issue with my partner and I do not know what to do?! My partner is too clingy. There are times when he wants to do something that might not include me or I might just not be interested in and I tell him it's OK to go by himself or with other...