After a traumatic breakup that left me almost homeless, I leaned on a good friend for support. Now, she’s pursuing a friendship with my ex. Feeling hurt and betrayed, I wonder if ‘girl code’ is just a myth.

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After a traumatic breakup that left me almost homeless, I leaned on a good friend for support. Now, she’s pursuing a friendship with my ex. Feeling hurt and betrayed, I wonder if ‘girl code’ is just a myth.
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